Edinburgh, 2007. The crisp Scottish air, the cobblestone streets, and… Salsa? My journey began hesitantly, a shy newcomer stepping onto the dance floor. Almost 2 decades later, the memories are as vivid as morning blossoms, each dance a chapter in the story of who I am today.
Pic: On the way to Calton Hill, Edinburgh on 20 Nov 2008.
Breaking Free from Hesitation
Growing up, asking a woman to dance felt like scaling a mountain. Cultural norms and my own shyness held me back. But the infectious rhythm of Salsa drew me in. Week after week, I braved the dance floor, eventually finding myself dancing almost every night, immersed in Edinburgh's vibrant Salsa scene. I was grateful for the kindness and patience of every partner, each dance a small victory.
The Evolution of a Dancer
Initially, I was a quiet observer, dancing and returning home, an introvert in a foreign land. But within a year, the dance floor became my community, forging friendships that surpassed anything I’d known in my first 22 years of my life. Hundreds of dances, thousands of steps, and then, a surprising revelation. Two friends, both dance partners, confessed their memories of our first dance: "HORRIBLE," they said, despite considering me a favourite later on
The Secret Ingredient
Curious, I asked why they continued to dance with me. Their answer was simple: my smile. Despite my technical shortcomings, my joy was undeniable. It was a powerful lesson. Dancing, after all, is about connection, about sharing a moment of happiness. Everyone arrives with their own burdens, seeking escape and joy. My smile, I realized, was a gift, a way to lift spirits and create a shared experience of pure delight.
The Universal Language of Joy
Since then, through countless festivals and local socials across the globe, I've learned that the most cherished dances are those filled with genuine smiles and shared happiness. Technique matters, but it's the feeling that lingers. A smile isn't a compromise; it's the essence of why we dance – to feel good, to connect, to spread joy.
At the end of the day, we all crave happiness. A simple, genuine smile can transform someone's day. So, the next time you step onto the dance floor, remember to wear your smile alongside your dancing shoes. It's the most beautiful accessory you can bring.
About the Author:
Arun Pauer is a scientist turned dancer with nearly 16 years of teaching experience in Salsa, Bachata, and Kizomba. Having taught and performed in over 25 countries, he is actively shaping the social dance scene in Graz and Chennai. Whether you're new to dancing or a seasoned social dancer, there’s always something to discover.
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