What is NOT Consent

1. Silence or Lack of Resistance

• Just because someone doesn’t say “no” doesn't mean they’re saying “yes.”

• They might be uncomfortable, unsure, or frozen.

2. Assumptions Based on Past Behavior

• Just because someone danced closely with you before doesn’t mean they always want to.

• Consent must be reconfirmed every time.

3. Flirting or Dressing a Certain Way

• What someone wears, how they dance, or if they smile at you doesn’t imply consent.

• Never assume someone is “inviting” anything beyond what they’ve clearly agreed to.

4. Being in a Relationship or Friendship

• Even if you’re close friends or dating, you still need ongoing consent.

• Familiarity does not equal permission.

5. Consent Given Under Pressure or Influence

• If someone says yes because they feel pressured, scared, intoxicated, or manipulated—that’s not real consent.

• True consent must be freely given.

6. "They Didn’t Say No" or “They Didn’t Push Me Away”

• Passive body language, avoiding eye contact, freezing, or discomfort are all signs something’s off.

• Consent is active and enthusiastic, not passive or hesitant.

Simple Rule:

If it’s not a clear “yes,” it’s a no.