What is NOT Consent
- Arun S Pauer
- Mar 25
- 1 min read

1. Silence or Lack of Resistance
Just because someone doesn’t say “no” doesn't mean they’re saying “yes.”
They might be uncomfortable, unsure, or frozen.
2. Assumptions Based on Past Behavior
Just because someone danced closely with you before doesn’t mean they always want to.
Consent must be reconfirmed every time.
3. Flirting or Dressing a Certain Way
What someone wears, how they dance, or if they smile at you doesn’t imply consent.
Never assume someone is “inviting” anything beyond what they’ve clearly agreed to.
4. Being in a Relationship or Friendship
Even if you’re close friends or dating, you still need ongoing consent.
Familiarity does not equal permission.
5. Consent Given Under Pressure or Influence
If someone says yes because they feel pressured, scared, intoxicated, or manipulated—that’s not real consent.
True consent must be freely given.
6. "They Didn’t Say No" or “They Didn’t Push Me Away”
Passive body language, avoiding eye contact, freezing, or discomfort are all signs something’s off.
Consent is active and enthusiastic, not passive or hesitant.
Simple Rule:
If it’s not a clear “yes,” it’s a no.
Much needed!! 😊 Unfortunately most men have no clue of the boundaries while dancing