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What is NOT Consent


1. Silence or Lack of Resistance

  • Just because someone doesn’t say “no” doesn't mean they’re saying “yes.”

  • They might be uncomfortable, unsure, or frozen.

2. Assumptions Based on Past Behavior

  • Just because someone danced closely with you before doesn’t mean they always want to.

  • Consent must be reconfirmed every time.

3. Flirting or Dressing a Certain Way

  • What someone wears, how they dance, or if they smile at you doesn’t imply consent.

  • Never assume someone is “inviting” anything beyond what they’ve clearly agreed to.

4. Being in a Relationship or Friendship

  • Even if you’re close friends or dating, you still need ongoing consent.

  • Familiarity does not equal permission.

5. Consent Given Under Pressure or Influence

  • If someone says yes because they feel pressured, scared, intoxicated, or manipulated—that’s not real consent.

  • True consent must be freely given.

6. "They Didn’t Say No" or “They Didn’t Push Me Away”

  • Passive body language, avoiding eye contact, freezing, or discomfort are all signs something’s off.

  • Consent is active and enthusiastic, not passive or hesitant.

Simple Rule:

If it’s not a clear “yes,” it’s a no.

 
 
 

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Guest
Mar 25
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

Much needed!! 😊 Unfortunately most men have no clue of the boundaries while dancing

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Arun S Pauer
Arun S Pauer
Mar 26
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Yes, or they know it and make an excuse. So it's good to create awareness

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